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The idea that my dad should have some possessive command over me all of a sudden at age 28 when I'm so careful to be good most all of the time.  This is getting sick.  There is closure, but I don't think it's over.  Yes, um, people are putting things in my face that I already did what I was supposed to with it.  I don't mean to bring anything up to certain people but to a general audience that might know something.